Math and the Toddler Child

By Claire Nguyen, Toddler Directress

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Some parents might be wondering, “what does Math look like in a Montessori Infant-Toddler community?” Like other concepts, it is presented in developmentally appropriate ways, although they may not always look "math-y." For example, we know that young children learn through movement and exploration in these communities. It's critical, then, that the physical environment provide realistic, predictable feedback as young children move through it, reinforcing their spatial awareness. Objects with which the children interact need to respond the same way to each interaction, reinforcing the lessons that children learn as they explore. If you notice, Montessori Infant-Toddler classrooms do not have (or rarely have) battery-driven toys available. Because we want children to build their capacity for prediction and their ability to sort and classify real information. There aren't responses (like noises or movements) that aren't driven by the child's own actions. By interacting in a predictable environment and building their understanding of cause and effect, children's mathematical minds develop. You won't see bouncy chairs with internal motors or flashing lights on battery-powered buttons. Instead, you'll see children exploring how different shapes and objects fit together, how they roll or land or weigh, how materials fill space, how liquids fill differently than solids, and the like.

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The language rich nature of the classrooms also supports children's developing mathematical ability, as the prepared adult uses accurate vocabulary to narrate children's experiences. You may hear, “you have a smaller cylinder and a larger cylinder" or "let's collect the cubes together." Children build the vocabulary to describe dimension, for comparison and for the basis of geometric shapes. You'll hear comparative language like, "more," "less," "bigger," "smaller," "heavier," "lighter," etc. as children move through their spaces and engage in language-based games with the directress. Finally, you'll notice children beginning to understand sequences, including the signals for those sequences, like how an adult setting a placemat on the table suggests that it's time to make one's way to a chair for a snack, or how to dispose of their crumbs/uneaten food in the trash before placing their place settings in the dishwashing racks/bins.

These may seem like small successes, but for the growing mind, they are foundational to later development. There are endless mathematically informed qualities you have already adopted but probably think about rarely, like for example, how much weight to place on a step as you're walking up and down a staircase. But just like you know how it feels to step up on a stair that's not there, or to expect one more step down when you slam your foot into the landing, understanding them helps you to navigate through your environment with ease. It's in these infant and toddler experiences that those core understandings are constructed, in preparation for the application in traditional mathematics activities children will master in later years.

The Prepared Adult and Enabling Healthy Eating Habits

By Claire Nguyen, Toddler Directress

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Over the past couple of months, on-the-go eating has been replaced with exclusively at-home meals. For many families, being home together all day may feel like navigating uncharted waters. The three daily meals and snacks in between have become the markers that break up ours and our children’s days in a new way. While this time obviously comes with a laundry list of new challenges, it also presents the opportunity to enable a healthy relationship with food, especially for our most impressionable toddlers.

The adults are laying the foundations for the child's relationship with food and for good eating habits. The adult decides where, when, and what the child will eat. It would be ideal to set up the kitchen so the child can be independent, as well as involved in the meal preparation. Children have more interest in food when they are part of the preparation of the meal, and they can learn to get a drink when needed if they can reach a water source by themselves.

WHERE TO EAT:
Establishing a place to eat is important for the young child. It is also important to set a rule that food and beverages stay at the table and we eat at the table, not play. It is ideal to eat meals together as a family but to not expect the young child to sit at the table until everyone is finished. If the toddler is finished, you can say "I see you are finished, you may be excused" or you could offer the words for them to ask "May I please be excused?" The adult may assist him/her to clean up their spot and take their plate to the kitchen/sink area.

Sometimes, the young child will walk away from the table with food or utensil in their hand. When that occurs, the adult can say, "I'll keep the food/utensil at the table. It's okay for you to go." If they would like to keep eating, they need to sit back down at the table with the food/utensil. If not, model clearing things away to show that by leaving, they are choosing to be finished.

WHEN TO EAT:
It's best to keep with the daily rhythm/routine and offer meals at regular times during the day, rather than having the kitchen open at all hours. Providing three meals a day (breakfast, lunch, dinner) and perhaps a small snack in the morning and/or the afternoon.

WHAT TO EAT:
As the adult, you can decide what food you'd like your family to eat. For some families, only one option is offered but for others, two options are offered to the child that they find acceptable. Toddlers are not yet capable of making good food choices completely by themselves but will learn based on what's modeled and offered to them.

When it comes down to it, this surplus of meals together with our children is also a surplus in opportunities to teach our children, to grow healthy with our children, but most importantly to love our children. Savor the conversations and the bonding that these meals can present!

Planting the Seed of the Pascal Mystery in the Heart of the Young Child

Written by Jennifer Ashton, Primary Directress

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“it is the smallest of all seeds, but when it has grown it is the greatest of shrubs and becomes a tree, so that the birds of the air come and make nests in its branches.” Matthew 13:32

In the Children’s House, the announcement of Our Lord’s death is always proclaimed in conjunction with His rising. We would never just say that Jesus died on the cross without also saying He rose and will come again! Even when a child comes to us and says, Jesus died on the cross, we would immediately fill in the remaining...and He is risen! We do this for two reasons, first being that death alone can be scary for a young child, but also to lift up the Pascal Mystery of death and resurrection.

The month of March has brought a seed planting work to the shelves, as we prepare for our Outdoor Garden in the spring. We are raising little perennial flowers to start indoors and will later transplant outdoors when there is no chance of frost! Raising perennial flowers from seed helps the children to further ponder the Pascal Mystery as they witness the growth of the plant and the transformation of the seed. When we plant a seed and it grows it does not just become a bigger seed! The seed changes and must “die” in order for plant to grow. We know that the death of the seed is not the end but the beginning of a new life for this flower. The further beauty of perennials, is that this flower will return to us year after year and produce an abundance of flowers in years to come. This leads us to later ponder with the children the strength that hides within the seed, and where that strength comes from.  The children joyfully respond they know this strength comes from God! We present an open ended question for them to meditate on, “if God would give a seed this kind of strength, imagine the strength that is inside of us!”

Perennial gardeners have a lovely little rhyme about planting from seed...”first year sleeps, second year creeps, third year leaps!” What I love most about this rhyme is how accurately it describes the development of the 3 to 6 year old child in the classroom. The first year they are with us, parents and teachers alike are left to ponder together the secret of childhood: all that is hidden and sleeping within, the second year we get these glimmers of what they know, what has been developed within them already and what we still need to support to aid them in fully realizing their potential. The third year brings out our great leaders and we see the children leaping into that potential! Our 3rd year children are showing all the signs of this greatness within as they are preparing to shed their seed and burst forth with beauty and grace in the garden!

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As we prepare for the Easter Season, keep in mind what a rich activity gardening at home can be! It is an excellent way to bring Scripture into your every day life, a way to introduce responsibility and help prevent wastefulness and also a way to demonstrate the wondrous effects that can result from diligence and patience.