Phase-In : How to help your child have a great year, from the start!

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Have you noticed that your child is more tired at the beginning of the school year? School is a child’s work and that work is to construct themselves, not just intellectually, but also physically, socially, emotionally, morally and spiritually. That is big work! It’s important to move at the child’s pace and allow them to properly adjust to a new place, a new schedule, new children, sometimes even new adults. Having a stabilizing period in which the child and guide get to know one another in the environment is important. During this gentle transition, a sense of security and comfort is fostered for the child toward his new environment and the group of children in the classroom. This sets your child up for a successful year of learning.

Why We Phase-In

The children are eager and excited about the year of learning ahead. The learning environment is stimulating; it is a place where independence will flourish as the child experiences freedom of choice within the classroom. Each child will gradually learn how to handle this choice and sense of freedom while respecting and caring for others in the classroom, the learning materials, and the classroom environment itself. The phase-in process allows the new children to get an overview of how things work in the classroom. Children who are returning from previous years are reminded of the classroom rules.

  • Phase-in sets the tone of the classroom by respecting and caring for one another, as well as the environment. It sets the stage for independent learning.

  • The gradual phase-in allows the child to absorb and digest new concepts and ideas without becoming overwhelmed and confused by too much information. This is why days are shorter in the beginning of the learning cycle.

  • Children need short increments of time in order to establish and re-establish procedures and ground rules. Routine is important to children and order is a fundamental human need! Children need time to orient themselves with classroom materials and the physical space (cubbies, bathroom location, etc.)

A Phase-In Schedule Is The Key To Success

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We understand that slowly bringing the children into the new school year can feel like a juggling act for parents. Parents may need to alter working schedules temporarily in order to meet the needs of the phase-in schedule. Childcare might need to be arranged if that is not an option. In the end, the balancing act becomes well worth it. Children need to build trust in their environment, their peers, and their guides so that they can explore independently. During the first six years of life, the child’s mind works like a sponge, absorbing everything around it. Too much too fast can be overwhelming, and can ultimately hinder the child from reaching their full potential.

Following The Child

In Montessori, we use the phrase “Follow the Child” quite often. We believe that children are born with an amazingly powerful potential and desire to learn, and as adults our job is to simply guide them. We believe that applies to schedules as well. Placing a child in school to fit an adult schedule doesn’t always work. The days might be too long for them, they might get exhausted and grumpy, and it might discourage them to pursue their natural drive to learn. By starting out slowly, you are giving the child the opportunity to go at their own pace, learning with confidence, and building up their energy to learn for full work cycles.

What is Our Curriculum? The Universe!

By Jennifer Luetkemeyer, Elementary Guide

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“Let us give children a vision of the universe” -Maria Montessori

The first classrooms designed to serve the second plane child in the way we strive to imitate at Renaissance today were found in Holland in the 1920s. Dr. Montessori observed another teacher who was already meeting the needs of the children in a profoundly non-traditional way and thereby developed and refined her ideas into what she called “Cosmic Education.” In a lecture given at the University of Amsterdam in 1950, Dr. Montessori said, “...all methods of education based on centers of interest which have been chosen by adults are wrong. Moreover, these centers of interest are superfluous, for the child is interested in everything. A global vision of cosmic events fascinates the child and his interest will soon remain fixed on one particular part, as a starting point for more intensive studies.”

When asked about our curriculum, then, Montessori guides can confidently answer: the universe, its furnishings, those who live/have lived within it, and all of their stories! As the children’s interests are innumerable, so also are the possibilities of what they might choose to explore! While traditional teachers prepare lessons and areas of study within particular subjects, our work is to give rich, inspiring stories and exposure to concepts and materials - but to purposefully limit what we offer. “We do not want complacent students,” Dr. Montessori warned.

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We do not hope they will leave our presentations satisfied but rather itching to learn more... preferably right away! We want the children stirred up at school, noisy and chatty, and then coming home, begging parents to take them to a battlefield or to help them to further research some fascinating detail to fan the fires we seek to ignite here during the day.

Our materials, therefore, are also intentionally limited. We offer a foundation but not the whole story; we leave room for the children to fill in the details for themselves! To this end, we find it deeply satisfying when children make their own materials - either for their own enjoyment or for the benefit of the community.

Letting Your Child Engage in the Struggle

By Jen Ashton, Primary Directress

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“The child’s conquest of independence begins with his first introduction to life. While he is developing, he perfects himself and overcomes every obstacle that he finds in his path. A vital force is active within him, and this guides his efforts towards their goal.”

In the Children’s House, a child figuring something out for themselves is where they experience success and growth! The activities of daily life are more about process then the end product. A child polishes a tray because they love the process of setting everything out on a table, choosing a beautiful object in the classroom, applying polish to it and rubbing it off. The next day they choose the same object and polish it again. Perhaps the first time the child struggled with the polish dropper, but we show again how (or maybe another child helps) and then step back to allow practice, so the third time or fourth time is successful in squeezing it out. The joy in a child’s proclamation, “I did it!” is often heard in the Children’s House, from one whose struggle has been long and determined. As the adults in the classroom, if we interrupt it, we not only hinder a child's development in the area of independence but we rob them of the joy experienced with the moment of successful accomplishment!

As adults it is hard for us to stand by and not offer to do something for the children that is struggling with something. However, we understand that it is important for children to take the time that they need to do things for themselves. This is not to say we abandon a child to struggle alone. We are there, offering a quiet presence, watching and observing, and occasionally (just before the tipping point of mad frustration) offering a little point of interest with the words, “let me show you the next step and then you try.” The more time we spend with children and watch their growth and successes, the more we are able to internalize the importance of children being able to do things for themselves.

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This is why we wear tie shoes in the classroom. Tie shoes offer the older children, who know how to tie, an opportunity to offer their shoe tying services to others who don't know how to do it. Some of the younger children are aspiring to be like the older who already know how to tie, and it gives them a sense of determination: twisting and looping and lacing and twirling over and over again. This week I heard from one of the younger children, the beautiful shoe tying proclamation, “I made the first tie!” A few other children in the classroom who were nearby came over to enjoy their success. Then the child said, “Next, the loops!” I took so much enjoyment from this moment, and not just for the child who made the tie, but more from watching the other children who also gathered to enjoy this moment when someone succeeded in their struggle.

Another child was struggling to UNTIE his double knotted shoes. He kept pulling the loops tighter and tighter. Several times, I have shown how to find the place where the laces cross over and gently tug them apart until they were loose. Occasionally the shoes would be slipped off his feet with the loops still in place and he would bang the shoes on the floor... This week I looked over at him sitting on the floor, smiling a huge smile with both shoes in front of him.. untied, laces tucked in and super proud of his accomplishment! Maybe the other children didn’t notice this time, but he knew it and I knew it and we both enjoyed the success together!